As weddings usually go there is something likely to
go wrong, some mishap or other, something unexpected. From my experience
as a clergy, I remember the wedding rings being dropped and rolling across the floor just as
the groomsmen went to hand them over for the blessing, or they have been left
back at the house with someone having to return to look for them, another time the groom just as he was about to
repeat his vows looked like he was going to fall over and I realized he was about to faint, and of course there is always the bride who comes late and the poor groom left waiting is about to have a panic attack thinking he has been left standing at the alter.
All sorts of things go wrong at weddings, and the wedding in Cana
was no different, only here it was to run short on their supply of wine. (John 2: 1 -11).
While that would be no big deal perhaps in our culture,
someone would more then likely no where they could quickly to get more if they
wanted it. But For Mary, the
mother of Jesus, this seems to be of great concern and goes to jesus telling him “they have no
wine.” Jesus however doesn’t seemed to be so bothered by it has his
mother, and says to her, “woman, what concern is that to you and to me?” My hour has not yet come."
Our first inclination is to think that was not a nice way to answer his mother. However, when we hear these last words, knowing Jesus often spoke this throughout the gospels leading up to the
time of his death on the cross, “my hour has not yet come,” we think that perhaps he
is referring to this here. That it is not time for him to begin his ministry of
revealing who he is as God’s Son. And perhaps this so-called crisis, of not having enough wine for the wedding festivities
was not of the miracle producing nature.
Mary however is not put off by what Jesus says, instead like
any mother when she expects her Son to listen to her, she says to the servants,
“do whatever he tells you.” In
other words now my Son, listen to your mother and get on with it. She wasn’t about to take no for an
answer.
And in short order it seems Jesus does just what his mother had
asked of him, he produces the new wine.
Why did Jesus hesitate in the first place, and why did he change his
mind? Was his mother so convincing? or might it be that he realized what was asked of him, was not about the
wine at all, but about the life of this young couple, the impact this so called
inconveniece as we might consider it, would have on their lives.
In the time and culture of Jesus day running out of wine at
a wedding feast would not only have been an inconvenience for this young couple
and an embarrassment they would no doubt have to live with for the rest of their lives. Wine was a sign of the harvest, of
God’s abundance, hospitality and joy, and so for this young couple to run short
on wine, it was to run short on blessing.
This couple was probably from a poor family, they likely did
not have much to start out with, and to run out of wine meant that their lives
were off to a poor start without God’s blessing. In providing the wine Jesus was not only helping them save face so to speak, but
showing God’s blessing toward them.
God understands our needs, and responds to them, no matter how great or
how small they may be, but also no matter what importance or lack of importance
they may seem to someone else. They are important to God.
Jesus saw the importance in the need for this couple. God’s grace is like that, it shows up in
the ordinary events of our lives.
The wine was a gift not only for the party, in that Jesus provided more
wine for the festivities, but a
gift of blessing for their lives, a way of revealing God’s grace toward
them.
In the season of Epiphany we look for God’s revealing, how
God is made known to us in the scripture, what it says about God and who God
is. The miracle of turning the
water into wine at the wedding in Cana, had much to say about God, that can be
a blessing to our own lives.
When Jesus told the servants to fill up the purification
Jars with water, it says they filled them to the brim, they were overflowing.
Jesus didn’t just provide a few extra bottles of wine, for the wedding, which
likely would have been sufficient.
These jars held twenty or thirty gallons, and that amount of wine, added
up to about another 1000 bottles of wine.
I read somewheres, it said, this was more wine then the crowd could have
drunk not only during the three days of the wedding feast, but even over three
weeks.
That’s a lot of wine, why the abundance, why not give just
what was needed. Perhaps Jesus was
doing a turn around on his mother, “you asked for it, you got it.” We know that is not the case, this is a
miracle of gigantic proportions, this is how God works. God doesn’t just give in small
quantities, or qualities, but like the overflow of wine that was pouring for
the people there, God pours our his love abundantly toward us, our God is a
generous God.
No wonder when Paul in one of his letters complains about the
thorn in his side, he says the
Lord says to him, “my grace is sufficient for you” (2 cor 12:9). God blesses us above and beyond any
thing we can ask or imagine.
And that is just it we can’t imagine it, but we can know it
through our experience. Can you
imagine the thoughts of the bridegroom when the steward called him over after
tasting the wine. This poor young
fellow was probably expecting to hear the servant say the wine barrel was gone
dry, and instead he says to him, “everyone serves the good wine first, and then
the inferior wine after the guests have become drunk. But you have kept the good wine until now” (2:10).
The Bridegroom must have been as we would say, blowin’ away
by this, astonished, flabbergasted, call it what you like, but he knew then what
it was to be truly amazed by God’s grace.
Even if he didn’t know where it had come from at the moment, for it says
the steward didn’t know, maybe the servants who had drawn the water told him
about it later, as it says they knew. In whatever case it is no doubt he would have accepted
it graciously, thanking God for not small miracles in this case but for a big
one, because God didn't just give him more wine, and not only an abundant amount but gave his best. Now that is a awesome God. A God who loves beyond all measure.
And we can testify to that in our own lives. We all know things that have happened perhaps in our own
lives that have revealed God to us in a way that we cannot deny, we cannot let
it go because we know something out of the ordianary, or extraordianary has happened. That young couple would
no doubt have remembered the miracle at their wedding perhaps going back to it
many times over, throughout their lifetime, remembering God’s goodness towards
them, and if so, it is likely their lives were ever more lived out in gratitude
toward God.
That is what grace does, it doesn’t end with the event, or
what happened, how God revealed himself to us, it is extended, shared, throughout
our lives in our response to it . This was the first of Jesus signs, it
says, in Cana of Galilee, revealing his glory, and the disciples believed in him.
Jesus gives us all we need to know his glory, the disciples
were his followers they saw, and they believed, we too see and believe, because
we know God is made present to us in the Eucharist, in our gathering together,
in our baptisms, in our lives, wherever we are, and it is there we are to
expect him to show up, and be present to us, just as Jesus was at the wedding
in Cana.
He was there, not all who were there knew who he was, not
all, perhaps only a few there knew a miracle had taken place right in their
midst, but for those who did,
God’s grace was made known in a powerful way.
It is expecting
God to be in all of our lives, in all places, and in all that we do, that we learn to discern his presence and goodness towards us and in
the world, and know we are never away from him. God’s grace overflows freely
toward us.
Amen. God bless.